Wedding Poetry
Many couples like to have wedding poetry read during
their ceremony or as part of their reception. This is a great way
to add to the romantic ambience. And after all the hectic months
of planning, and the nerves that are sure to accompany any bride
or groom, this can be a great way to allow the couple a moment where
they can reflect on what the day is really all about.
But, there is much more than just deciding on what wedding poetry
you'll want to be read and who will read it. Like any part of the
event planning process, there are things to keep in mind.
Begin your search for that perfect piece of wedding poetry as early
as possible but don't make any decisions until you have decided
where the venue for your ceremony and reception will be. Some churches
may not allow certain pieces of wedding poetry so it's good to know
this before you get your heart really set on something.
Once you're aware of any restrictions that may be placed on the
wedding poetry reading, it's a good idea to include the reading
as part of the planning process from the very beginning. This will
allow you to plan for enough time for the reading to take place.
Make your selection very carefully. This will be a keepsake for
years to come and can even be printed inside the wedding program.
Make sure that the piece of poetry represents both the bride and
grooms personalities, their likes and dislikes, and also follows
the theme of the celebration.
You should consider whether the event will be a formal or informal
setting. You'll want the wedding poetry to keep in pace with the
tone of the event. Something sweet and simple will work well for
an informal setting whereas a person may choose to have an elaborate
poetry reading for a formal setting.
Another option when selecting your wedding poetry is whether or
not you would like the poem set to music. Wedding musicians, even
the church's organist or pianist may be able to come up with something
beautiful to play as background to the reading itself.
When you're deciding on who you would like to read the wedding
poem, you can ask just about anybody that you would like. Keep in
mind though that some people may not be comfortable doing a reading
in front of a crowd that large.
Don't put pressure on them to do it as you don't want anybody feeling
obligated to do something they don't want to do. Remember too that
as much as you may want them to participate in the reading, not
wanting to is no reflection on them. Some people just aren't comfortable
with public speaking while others will be thrilled to be included
as such a big part of your special day!
Popular poetry pieces that are used are those by George Sand, Thomas
Moore, Kahlil Gibran or William Shakespeare. You can find a numerous
of selections in books of poetry. No matter what one chooses, however,
by picking a few pieces of wedding poetry that speaks to the heart,
it will be perfect for the event and all of those who attend.
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